Death Teaches Blog

Death Does Teach…

With the love for our children, brothers, sisters, wives and husbands, moms, dads, grandparents, friends…we are changed. Are we meant to be? Yes.

Life is a journey of the heart and soul. Could we know how deeply we would feel for one another? Can it truly be put into words? Must it be felt to see that depth? Will it change us forever?

After Scott’s sudden death…and to this day, I have seen tremendous love and pain, not only in myself, but hundreds, thousands, millions of others across the world. We love deeply, we grieve deeply. We are changed. We hear a new voice emerge from within…using words we hope will help another, teach, heal or perhaps open up new thinking.

The Soul’s Journey Shows Us More

When this blog was created it, was not my idea. It came from Scott/Spirit/God. As I‘ve said many times, my initial response to creating and then writing a blog was  “No”. You see where I am today. I must smile too.  It was out of my hands from the beginning.

Knowing I planned this blog long, long ago in my pre-birth soul planning shows me what must be done now with every aspect of my life. When it is time. When it must be seen. When the words must be heard, put on the page, read…greater awareness will come.

New Ways of Thinking





Anger, hate,

Pain, suffering,  confusion…

What is life really all about?

I ask Scott this question now, because we are going to answer it in a new way.  Challenges are a clear signal Spirit is at work within us.


Why??  Then ask why a million other times too. Why him, why her, why us? Was there not enough love, protection, courage,and guidance? The doctors, the hospital, the treatment…wasn’t it enough? We followed all the rules! We are good people! We used tough love, or we gave all we had, we tried, we never gave up, we wanted for her or him to experience life, to fly.


How many times are those questions answered to our deepest need for truth, an understanding that allows us to accept what was created… Will there ever be enough answers for all we desperately ask?

The Soul Planned Life

The soul plans are not as confusing as you may think…

And it is definitely time to share more…

I want you to know this…and Scott/Spirit insists you have this piece…

You will always be connected to your children and loved ones.  ALWAYS.

The “Veil” and Its Meaning of “Separation”

As Scott and I write together to help bring clarity to much of what has been confusing us, I love that Spirit brings these topics to the forefront…

In keeping the promise we made to you last week to reveal the spiritual meaning…and relieve the confusion of “the veil” that seemingly separates us from our children and loved ones…let’s take a deeper look. Truly, this “veil” has given us in the human body something to visualize and hold in our minds that illustrates we are on two sides of something. But are we?

The Next Steps…Soul Planning

Ok, so Scott and I have not written for quite awhile! When this happens, as I have shared with you before, it is for my human experiences, learning, and growth. Just like a teacher needing the classes and background to teach, Spirit has been showing me what I need to understand on a deeper level than I’ve ever known…to bring their words through to you. I’ve said before, Spirit is a masterful teacher. Oh yes!

Afterlife Love

When the love for our children and loved ones is so strong…and we are aware they are reaching out to us…or they haven’t yet…we only want more.

More…to show us their love and ongoing commitment to us, the need for their presence to be as strong or stronger than before, the knowing they can bring us healing through their signs and communication, or greater frequency to fulfill our needs as we miss them so deeply.

They do communicate with us. It is mysterious, yet totally real. We hear them, feel them, see their messages, find their messages, and vividly dream with them.

All This Is Spiritual

The love for our children, our loved ones who left this earth (but truly haven’t left us) will continue to flourish in ways you may not see or understand today.

Our soul plans created this deep love and commitment we have for one another…planned before we were born.

It may take some time before you can more fully see the many, many ways this spiritual commitment you made together is seen. Can you remain in that beautiful promise made in Spirit…even though you cannot remember all the details?

What Can Today Show You?

The first knowing I had that Scott had died was… This is so incredibly final!

It wasn’t until I was given that first sign of his continuing relationship with me that I was able to see a spark of hope…that death is not final. It came the day after his funeral.

Now, all these years later…I cannot believe how much Scott/Spirit has taught me…and continues to…

The New Year…

The New Year…leaving the old and facing the new…without you Scott…for the first time…or again and again… It was hell.

The Soul Plans of Life and Death

The love is for always.

The need to know more is for certain.

There are answers that go beyond the norm. The norm being mainstream…

But then…are we becoming mainstream in our words?