Scott’s words about his leaving…
When my love for Scott was ever so present…after his death…it was so multi-faceted…
I love you forever sweetheart. Forever… Do you know that?
I miss you beyond words Scott!
I am so confused…What do I DO with all my love for you??
Can you hear me cry out to you?
Is it possible you do hear me? …Every day?
This can’t be forever!!! I can’t do this…
Scott…please Honey… I need answers…
My words…my pain…the ever present struggle…
…I could never have known I’d be doing this work with Scott…
It’s a miracle…
And so…now Scott comes to me…and to you…to help us see more than we’ve known…
As Scott…
When I came into this life with my mom and dad…I was here with reason…with purpose…but without that knowing…like most everyone.
Could my mom have known that this love affair we’ve had would…and could last forever…even after my death?
She has seen this, lived it with me, and trusted way beyond what many of her family and friends might have thought possible…
I need to share with you…why I left…when life was ever so good and I was a happy nineteen year old…
Life is not always as we know…as we live it.
The mystery of death has always existed…and why think about death when we don’t need to?
Then death does comes…
…And life is never the same… You all know this…
Can life be ever as it was? No…
But I can tell you this…from the Other Side…and this is a universal knowing on the Other Side…
Life is a place where we all come in…to learn…to grow…to EXPERIENCE…
I see this now…
I saw it from the moment I left my body…
We see the truth and the LOVE and the great purpose in our lives as soon as we leave our bodies… We are in Spirit. Spirit is many things to many of you. We say Spirit is…with God…your Higher Power…in Heaven…
We also see the immense meaning and purpose in our deaths…
As sudden or as devastating or as impossible it is for you to see that for us… We see it all…
Death creates huge voids…devastating pain…great confusion…break downs and breakups…and more…more…more…
Whatever you are feeling…it is where you need to be…
And we ARE with you…
Are we always going to let you know that? We cannot…the journey is so important…
Your journey IS IMPORTANT.
My Mom, Sara, sees that now… It is almost twenty years for her…since I left…on May 20, 1994.
She knew nothing of this…but in time and with hard work…it came…through the journey into and out of grief…
What we know on the Other Side…Heaven…is that your journey will be different than Sara’s…because it is the journey you are taking…
…With your family, your friends, your new bereaved friends, your teachers…and all those who are in your life…and will come into your life.
Creating a life and then seeing that precious life leave is more than unbearable. We see this…We DO know how hard life is without us…
We know your journey… We know who you will meet…those who guide and help you…even those who don’t agree with you… It is the path you are taking…
We guide you… You are never alone…even when you feel the most alone…
Mom…Sara…began to see this when the Kite poem appeared…she knew it was from me…ever so magical and mysterious and beautiful…as we wrote about earlier…
Many of you have had those kinds of signs too… And if you haven’t…her sharing with you…allows you to open up to new thinking…
Don’t ever doubt they will come…
The timing is ours…from Spirit…Heaven. We know what it is you need… And when.
Do your grief work…trust there is more…to life and death…
Share your pain with others… Your journey is too important to keep to yourself… Find those who will listen…and know…you have been guided there by your own loved ones…
I’ll bring more next Monday…
Trust… Be open… BELIEVE…
Sara and Scott
xox
Love your words of wisdom, Been a teacher 30 years now but the pain doesn’t seem to get any easier. Thanks for your love for others and help. Dede
Trust Dede…you are doing good work… IMPORTANT WORK! This complicated journey doesn’t always show us that… Trust… xox
Wow! Easter Sunday was so very hectic for me. Lost my mother almost 13 years ago. This is the 2nd Easter without my Grandmother. I had such fun happy times with my 3 young girls….then very difficult times where i felt completely alone in a house full of people. Had a few private breakdowns. And when i came back into the room 3 songs from the 80’s, my childhood that reminded of me and time with my mom as a kid all played in a row on the radio….i felt her. She was letting me know i wasn’t alone in my thoughts and troubles. It helped me get through the rest of the day♡ thank u for sharing your experience. It helps me to realize i can validate those moments of spirit contact and know they are for real♡
An amazing day for you Kimberly… I’m so happy you were able to put everything together and KNOW the meaning of it all.. I hope Easter has new meaning for you… xox
Dear Sara, could you tell me please how you communicate with Scott. I lost a daughter almost 3 years ago and trying to do anything to communicate with her.
Love.
Rita
Dear Rita… I learned I was not able to make our communication happen on my own… Spirit comes in ways we cannot always understand… Trust what comes…and remember I did not hear Scott for many years. We need so much and it is so hard… xox
Thank you Sara and Scott for your beautiful insights. This is helping me deal with my son Michael in spirit. He left the earth plane two years ago, but already gives me many signs. For this I am very grateful. One day I hope to communicate like you do back and forth with Scott. But as Scott said, it is in Spirit time, not our time. As painful as it is to lose a child or another loved one, I do believe we are all learning something from these painful lessons. I anxiously await for next week’s words. Thank you again. <3
Yes Sheryl…in Spirit’s time. We have much grief work to do on this journey and knowing this pushed me to do that work…and I continue to learn… Michael is always with you…as Scott is for me…as you know. They are there forever…for all of us. Thank you for writing… xox
Sara- I am so grateful and blessed to have been led to your blog. The connection you have with Scott is so incredible. It helps me to connect with my son and to learn to accept this journey. I learn so much from your wonderful words and also from everyone’s responses to your posts. I look forward to the next one!
Thank you Audrey… I’m grateful for our new friendship too.
Thank you for your beautiful words they have brought me to tears of happiness, joy, and believing i will be okay. A year ago at the age of 26 I lost my mom, six months later I lost my father.
These beautiful words let me know I am never alone even when I feel the most alone. Yet it lets me know it is okay to cry because as Scott said we are were we need to be. Peace, love, and joy.
Dear Carolina… My heart goes out to you…such huge life changing losses. I’ve learned we can be whole again…when we look for that which can help us… Not the same as before maybe…but often times…more than we ever thought possible.
Thank you for letting me know our blog opened you up to greater hope. That gives my journey with Scott even more meaning. xox
I’m going through and reading all yours and Scott’s blogs, I was meant to find you.. Thank you
Spirit to Spirit Bren…we are seeing our similarities… Thank you. xox
I’m glad you have found us too Bren. I have felt these feelings too…as I found the words that helped me on my journey. I understand and am so grateful for my teachers. xox