Our Lives Are Planned
If you have been reading our blogs for awhile, you know I’ve expressed how much needed healing came from my learning our human lives are planned before we are born… Soul planned. I cannot tell you how important knowing and living within this spiritual reality has been for me. Absolutely…life changing.
This grief journey is one of discovery, learning, opening up to the new…through our pain…and the ability to go beyond what we’ve seen through our human eyes. What if we look through Spirit’s “eyes” and go deeper into the reality of what our children and loved ones now see and know about the lives we planned together before we were born?
Spirit knows it is time for this to be shared openly with you. Eventually our blogs will come together in a book of sorts (I’m not always told all the details until it is time!) to put the soul planning into the hands of those who need it the most…the grieving. You. In the meantime, all the blogs are archived on our webpage www.deathteaches.com, along with the heartfelt questions and comments posted on each blog. Scott and I answer each one to bring even greater clarity to our readers. And isn’t that what we yearn for? Clarity…in the midst of our grief?
Scott/Spirit’s words ~
As we share more about soul planning, we in Spirit, with Mom/Sara know that many of you reading are grieving the deaths of your beloved child or children.
The love of a child and the need to understand the depths of that love can be seen in the faces and words of bereaved parents. It is a death that was not ever anticipated…
It is the death that could not ever be imagined actually…occurring. No matter the age of the child… The children are much of the force behind the need for soul planning to be shared in this blog.
There is a bond that takes place in Spirit before the birth of every child that cannot be seen… The planning that goes into this child coming to the parents in their lifetime is one of depth and great meaning…wrapped in profound love.
It is spiritual…so magnificent it cannot be fully described in human terms.
For the human parents this is a soul plan of love, dreams and hopes. Fear, anxiety, disappointment, the need to be a round the clock caretaker and nurturer can be daunting. The soul planning includes those needed experiences. Every action in their lives is co-created by the child and the parents and it is done with pure unconditional love…before birth.
Because…the birth of every child is designed to create new experiences for the parents, the entire family, and beyond…during that lifetime.
Have you seen this in your own life? Taking care of a baby pushes one to untold places that were never imagined. Some are extraordinary, some beyond exhausting, some filled with laughter and joy, some with great pain and angst.
In this lifetime Sara shared with Scott…many of these moments were filled with the fear of the unknown…until she found herself moving through each day expecting the unknowns to be a possibility. And then she learned to reach out for help, to adapt, to try new ways of giving me, Scott, the care I needed and demanded as her child.
Not unlike you…
And then my death… Your child or children’s deaths…
How does a mother or father adapt to the death of a beloved child who filled your life with love, new experiences, awe, demands, dreams, and so much more? A healthy child…a challenged child…a child with health issues… some so severe that 24 hour care was needed…one that in time became dependent on drugs or took risks…and yet the love remained strong. Or it took a toll on the family, marriage or jobs. Sometimes a huge toll.
All this was soul planned before anyone in the family was born.
Nothing is random…in the spiritual planning. Your spirit was present in the soul planning with the spirits of other members of your family, caretakers if needed, doctors, friends, colleagues those who would challenge you, hurt you and those who would remain by your side. All chose to be together in this lifetime. Needed to be. Co-creating with love…knowing before you were born this life would be touched, broken open by tragedy…but through the pain, death, love, and confusion… life would be immersed in deep, deep meaning…and exquisite spiritual purpose.
All of it…soul planned before you were born to insure every valuable experience lived would be lived fully…within God/Spirit’s constant unwavering presence…whether felt, not felt, or questioned.
So necessary for you to know and hold on to tightly…
This spiritual love will keep you and your child, children, bonded in a love that is truly stronger than the pain and the missing…no matter what.
Trusting, in time with this new knowledge…your child lived and fulfilled his or her completed soul plan. Every day was planned and everyday was a day of growth, even if you could not see it…spiritually, it was. Mom/Sara most certainly struggled with the death of nineteen year old Scott. How could my life be over at that age and yet I had completed my soul planned life?
This is deep we know…
And this is why we bring you into the bigger picture of life and death…when it just does not make sense through human minds…it demands the answers only Spirit/God can provide.
One of the hardest aspects of understanding the soul plans is that it appears that pain, unjust or deadly actions by others, the unfairness of life, unresolved relationships, dying by suicide, or many other aspects of life and death is meant to be. Why would Spirit/God create all this beautiful love only to have it torn away from you under any circumstances? Next week we will help you understand…
If you have questions, please know we will answer them in our upcoming blogs. We hope you will take the time to share those in our comments section at the bottom of the blog.
Sara and Scott/Spirit